Backstage after a show in Manchester, Billie Eilish raises her hands to the camera. “Do you see the scratches?” she asks.
The scratches, light but obvious, are from the eager crowd that rushes toward her night after night — grabbing for a hug, a high-five, a touch of her fingers or the hem of her sleeve. And while Eilish admits she doesn’t mind (“I come from that fandom, so for me, I understand that need and that desperation”), even her generosity has to have limits. The realities of time and place mean that there will always be more people eager to get up close and personal with Eilish than there are people walking around.
Billie Eilish – Hit Me Hard & Soft: The Tour (Live 3D)
Bottom line Hits big and small.
release date: Friday 8 May
Managers: James Cameron, Billie Eilish
Rated PG-13, 1 hour and 54 minutes
It’s a good thing, then, that James Cameron has never been one to limit himself to the facts of time and place.
Participate in directing it Avatar The Maestro with the singer-songwriter herself, the oddly titled concert documentary Billie Eilish – Hit Me Hard and Soft: The Tour (Live in 3D)) can’t replace the joy of being among screaming crowds, let alone meeting a hero face to face. But with her live footage, sometimes captured from breathless, intimate close-up, you might be able to believe, just for a moment, that you can really reach right through the screen and touch her.
Captured over four consecutive shows at Manchester’s Co-op Live Arena in July 2025, the nearly two-hour film intersperses most of their set list with grainy snippets of behind-the-scenes footage from the day before the show.
The offstage material is fun but mostly routine. Sure, it’s fun to know that Eilish is trying to set up a puppy room for her crew at each stop, partnering with a local animal shelter to get them rescues for pets or even up for adoption (“I’ll definitely do that in my next movie,” Cameron comments, but that’s not very interesting). And while her comments about her tomboy style — as opposed to the ultra-feminine, leather-clad clothing generally associated with pop princesses — are inspiring, they’re also not something we haven’t heard before.
When Eilish is on stage the movie starts. Even from my suboptimal vantage point in the front corner of the stage, I was amazed by the depth and clarity of the 3D images. Close-ups are shot in such detail that you can see the fluff on her arms or the curl of her fingers as she climbs the stairs. From a distance, the camera captures a dizzying scope: the ear-piercing enthusiasm of the crowd, the bright lights and blaring sounds that “envelop you like the best sensory overload,” as Eilish puts it.
This combination of intimacy and volume seems particularly appropriate for Eilish, a celebrity whose girl-next-door casualness belies her outsized star power, and a musician whose vocals run the gamut from barely-there puff to full-throated belt.
Her theater also embodies this dichotomy. While other elite acts take a more-is-more approach with lavish props and dazzling costumes, Eilish keeps her act deceptively modest. She stands on a scattered black platform decorated with colorful beams of light. Her dancers are nonexistent—except for Eilish, her backing band, and a late surprise appearance by her brother and producer Finneas—and the only two bodies there are two backup singers wearing stiff Normie polo shirts. No costume changes, just a jersey and shorts combo that wouldn’t look out of place at a backyard barbecue and the loose curls that Eilish styles herself every night.
The choreography is so mediocre that it doesn’t resemble choreography at all. For the bouncy numbers, like the fun-filled “Lunch,” she runs and jumps around the stage so hard that, she admits, her legs have been hurting for months. On gentler songs, like the wistful “When the Party’s Over,” she simply reclines as if she’s back in the bedroom where she and Finneas recorded all of their hit albums.
The only evidence that all of this is actually a well-rehearsed tactic is Eilish’s precise control of her body, which can shift from aching tenderness to sly excitement at the drop of a beat. The end result is that he commands the audience’s energy so effortlessly that Cameron was moved to marvel at it. “You’re like a tuning fork,” he told her, “and it strikes exactly the same tunes.”
However, all things must come to an end, as even for much-loved pop stars, their fans consider them akin to gods. At the end of the night, once the last notes had faded and the last confetti had fallen, Eilish now looked less like a savior blessing her fans than just another young woman at the end of a difficult but rewarding day’s work, hopping into a waiting SUV. As she stepped out of the garage and onto the open road, she waved goodbye to her fans one last time.
But not for us, not yet. Cameron’s camera stays with her in the backseat as she rolls down the window and sticks her head out, her expression one of pure bliss. “I wasn’t used to leaving the hotel except to go to the venue,” she admits. “These trips will be the only time I get to smell fresh air.”
So I waited for her to explain to me whether things were different now—whether she went out more these days, how she avoided the cameras or dazzled passers-by when she did, and how she spent time in her hotel room when she didn’t. But the answers never came. Having given us this wonderful illusion of proximity, Hit Me Hard and Soft – The Tour (Live in 3D) Now he offers her the blessing of distance. We leave her there in the car, hurtling through the dark night back to whatever planet the idols made.

